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10 Signs Your Cat Sees You as a Protector

Have you ever wondered just how your cat views you?

People often perceive cats as independent and aloof, but they can form incredibly strong attachments to their owners.

Learning to interpret cat behaviors allows you to better respond to your pet’s needs. What’s more, knowing if your cat sees you as a protector also helps you foster a sense of security.

Throughout my years as a cat parent, I’ve come to learn the nuances of the feline body language. So, if you’re ready to understand your pet further, here are ten signs your cat sees you as a protector!

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1. Lifting Their Tail

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Observing your cat’s tail is like looking into their soul. You can tell a lot about what they’re thinking based on their angle and movement.

For instance, when your cat greets you with a high tail, it’s a strong sign of affection and trust.

In the feline world, a vertical tail is like a friendly wave, signaling they’re happy to see you. This indicates that your cat feels safe around you and trusts you to provide protection.

When you notice this tail position, take it as a cue to engage with your cat. Don’t miss the opportunity to reinforce that sense of safety and security!

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2. Cuddly Close Encounters

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Cats are naturally wary of the people around them, preferring to stay far away from danger. In some cases, cats even act as guardians, preferring higher vantage points.

You may see your cat perched on a shelf, their watchful gaze protecting you from potential threats. However, what does it mean when your cat is on the ground beside you?

If your cat loves to curl up with you or lean against you, it’s a clear sign of friendship and affection. For cats, close contact means your cat feels secure with you!

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3. Exposing Their Belly

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Some may view a cat showing its belly as an invitation for a belly rub (side note, it isn’t).

For cats, their mid-sections are their most vulnerable parts. Because of this, if your cat shows you its belly, it’s an indicator of deep trust.

An exposed belly means your cat feels secure enough to let down its guard in your presence. That said, while many cats enjoy gentle belly rubs, others might react with playful swats.

Understanding this behavior is key to respecting their boundaries!

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4. Following You Around

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If your cat trails you from room to room, they’re expressing a desire to be near you. This behavior reflects their emotional bond and commitment to your well-being.

Cats are naturally curious creatures, and their need to follow you shows they want to be part of your life. It’s a wonderful sign that they see you as part of their family unit and want to protect you as much as you protect them!

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5. Purring

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Purring is a common sign of affection but can also indicate contentment and security. Cats often vocalize a series of sounds to communicate their feelings.

A feline friend who feels safe will express that joy through vocalizations, whether through a soft purr or a gentle meow.

Of course, you should pay attention to the context. A cat that purrs while nestled in your lap is showing trust and appreciation for your protective presence.

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6. Kneading

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One of the most endearing behaviors cats display is kneading – pushing their paws in and out against a soft surface, often while purring. This charming action, sometimes called “making biscuits,” is a sign that your cat sees you as a protector and a source of comfort.

Kneading originates from kittenhood when young cats knead their mother’s bellies to stimulate milk flow. When your cat kneads you, they see you as a mother and protector.

Consider it a huge compliment. They’re creating a familiar feeling of safety, much like they experienced as kittens!

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7. Seeking You in Stressful Situations

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If your cat runs to you during loud noises or unfamiliar circumstances, they’re seeking comfort and protection. This reaction signifies a deep trust in your ability to keep them safe.

By responding to their needs in these moments, you reinforce the bond you share and affirm their reliance on you as their protector. Your presence can help alleviate their stress and provide the reassurance they crave.

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8. Eating Only When You’re Around

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Another notable sign that your cat sees you as its protector is their eating behavior. If your feline friend waits until you’re nearby to dive into their food bowl, it’s an indicator of trust.

Cats are cautious eaters, and their natural survival instincts lead them to be wary of potential threats while they’re vulnerable. By choosing to eat only when you’re around, your cat is expressing their reliance on you for safety.

Try creating a calm mealtime routine where you sit with your cat while they eat. Doing so reinforces the notion that you are their haven.

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9. Displaying Playful Behaviors

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Playfulness is a significant aspect of a cat’s personality. When your feline friend feels secure and safe, they’re more likely to engage in playful behaviors around you.

For example, if your cat brings you a toy, it’s not just a gift. It’s an invitation to play and share in their world.

This behavior is rooted in their instinct to engage with their family members. Simply put, they’re showing that they feel secure enough to include you in their fun. This reinforces the idea that they view you as a protector – a source of joy and safety!

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10. Napping in Your Presence

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Last but not least, when your cat chooses to nap near you, they see you as their protector.

For cats, sleep is a vulnerable state. In the wild, a cat would typically seek out a safe, hidden spot to rest away from potential threats.

A cat that feels threatened avoids sleeping in open areas or close to others. Meanwhile, if your cat chooses to doze off next to you, it means they recognize you as a reliable source of protection!

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Conclusion

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Becoming a cat owner comes with the responsibility to protect and nurture. By being aware of the signs, you can better meet your cat’s needs and boost their well-being.

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