The best way to ensure that a cat does indeed want to be touched is when they approach you.
But how can we get your cat, or even a stray cat, to feel comfortable around you?
Take care with this well thought out approach to getting your feline friend to feel content and secure in your presence.
When cats encounter each other in nature, an observant cat parent will know that they tend to go in nose-first. They will lower their chin in order to get a good sniff. This is a neutral greeting in the feline world.
An equivalent to this will be to approach the cat with a closed hand. Allow the cat to have a whiff of your scent, whereafter he will decide whether or not to allow you to touch him.
Cats are curious creatures by nature, and not many will ignore an extended hand. They will inch closer to inspect you and this might take some time.
A very simple way to help a cat or a kitten to become comfortable is by offering the cat a tasty snack. A simple treat will invoke more curiosity and the warming up period might speed up.
Remember to limit eye contact, keep a low and soft presence, and assess the cat’s reaction. If there are no obvious signs of discomfort, feel free to approach the cat gently and with care.
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