If you’ve ever felt like your cat treats you a little… strangely, you might not be wrong. While humans and cats are clearly different species, your feline friend might not see it that way. In fact, many cat behaviorists believe that cats view their humans as oversized, slightly odd-looking cats—not necessarily as a totally separate kind of creature.
And that’s actually a big compliment.
When your cat thinks you’re one of their own, they’re comfortable enough to interact with you in deeply instinctual ways. Here are 10 signs your cat may see you as another cat—perhaps even the most important one in their life.
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1. They Rub Their Face on You
That sweet little face nudge or headbutt isn’t just a sign of affection—it’s full-on cat-to-cat communication. Cats have scent glands in their cheeks and forehead, and when they rub their face on you, they’re marking you as part of their group.
In the wild, cats do this to each other to create a communal scent. If your cat does it to you? They’re basically saying, “You’re one of us.”
2. They Knead You Like Dough
Kneading is a behavior that starts when kittens nurse from their mothers. It’s associated with comfort, security, and bonding. When your adult cat climbs into your lap and starts rhythmically kneading your body, they’re not just getting comfy—they’re expressing deep trust and affection.
To them, you’re a soft, safe presence… just like mama cat.
3. They Groom You
Ever had your cat start licking your hand, arm, or even your hair? That’s not just random weirdness—it’s allogrooming, a behavior cats use with each other to strengthen bonds and show mutual trust.
When your cat grooms you, they’re treating you like a fellow feline family member. A very hairy, slightly clueless one—but family nonetheless.
4. They Bring You “Gifts”
Whether it’s a toy mouse, a sock, or something far more… crunchy, cats will sometimes present their humans with little treasures. In cat society, this can be a sign of sharing or teaching—like a mother cat bringing prey to her kittens to train them.
If your cat drops a gift at your feet, it might be because they think you’re their fellow cat who needs to learn how to hunt. Cute, right?
5. They Sleep Curled Up Next to You
In the wild, cats sleep curled up with trusted members of their group for warmth and protection. If your cat sleeps on your pillow, under your arm, or even sprawled across your back, they see you as safe and part of their inner circle.
And since cats are most vulnerable when they sleep, this is one of the most sincere signs of feline trust and acceptance.
6. They Slow Blink at You
Cats don’t always express love the same way we do—but the “slow blink” is basically the feline version of saying “I love you.” Cats use slow blinking with each other to show peace, affection, and trust.
So if your kitty gives you a long, sleepy blink while lounging in the sun, blink back! You’re speaking their language—and as far as they’re concerned, you’re a fellow cat who just gets it.
7. They Meow Just for You
Here’s a fun fact: adult cats don’t usually meow to each other. They mostly save that behavior for interacting with humans. Some experts think this is because cats view us as big cats who aren’t very good at reading body language—so they’ve adapted to be more vocal around us.
So when your cat meows at you, they’re making an extra effort to communicate with their “weird cat friend.” How thoughtful!
8. They Tolerate (or Invite) Belly Rubs
In the cat world, showing the belly is a big deal. It’s the most vulnerable part of their body, and exposing it is a massive gesture of trust. Most cats only show their belly to those they deeply trust—usually fellow cats they’re bonded with.
If your cat lets you rub their belly without turning into a claw tornado, you’ve officially made it into their feline inner circle. Welcome!
9. They Follow You From Room to Room
Cats are independent, yes, but they also enjoy the company of those they love and trust. If your cat follows you around the house—even into the bathroom—they’re doing what bonded cats do in the wild: sticking together.
They see you as a fellow group member. Maybe the leader. Maybe the slowest one. Either way, they’ve decided you’re part of the pride.
10. They Get Jealous or Territorial Around You
If your cat starts acting strange when you’re giving attention to other pets (or even people), it might be more than just quirky behavior. In cat groups, individuals can form particularly close bonds, and when that bond feels threatened, they might act out.
So when your cat gives you side-eye for petting the neighbor’s dog, it’s because they see you as “their” cat—and they’re not thrilled about sharing.
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Amanda created and owns The Discerning Cat. A lifelong cat lover she is the proud parent of two Siberian cats, Alexei and Vladimir. She is passionate about understanding cats and different cat breeds.