Cats often seem standoffish or distant, but they still need as much love as other pets. They’re not as expressive as dogs, though, so it’s often up to you to give them attention when they demand it.
I say demand because that’s typically what they do! They’d act in the most bizarre ways just to get your eyes on them, which is adorable considering how they usually keep to themselves.
Below are 10 signs your cat needs more love. Pay attention to these subtle signs and learn how and when to give your fur child the attention it deserves.
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1. Pawing at You
Most cats don’t voice their need for cuddles—they get physical.
If your cat starts pawing at your legs or arms, to the point that you need to stop what you’re doing, that’s an obvious sign that they want your affection.
They’re basically poking you to look at them!
Some felines may paw at you as a last resort, while others do it first because they may find it the most effective way to get cuddles from their parents.
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2. Sprawling Over Your Laptop
Remember those bizarre things I said earlier? But again they usually do it as they find it the quickest way to get more love.
Besides your laptop, they may attempt to sprawl over your book, newspaper, or tablet. Think of it as asserting dominance over anything that the feline thinks is distracting you from them.
So, don’t get annoyed whenever they do this. It’s simply the feline saying “I love you, give me attention now.” Of course, it’s also plausible that the kitten’s just messing with you.
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3. Rubbing Against You
Have you noticed your kitten rubbing against your feet more often? They may block your path as you walk or lay as near as they can when you sit.
Maybe it’s time to give your feline companion your undivided attention.
Cats leave their scent when they rub their body, which is a classic mark of ownership. “You’re my human,” is what the feline is saying.
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4. Knocking Things Over
Everything is held hostage when the furry creatures feel needy.
Don’t give them what they want and you may just find your favorite mug on the floor. Or whatever’s left of it.
Like most pets, cats get somewhat destructive when left alone for a long time. And if pawing, rubbing, or sprawling over your desk doesn’t work, expect a few little accidents to happen next.
In short, it’s never a good idea to wait before you give the feline some attention!
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5. Staring, Intense Staring
Cats stare at their parents for all sorts of reasons. As curious creatures, they may be observing you to see if you’d do something they’d find interesting.
But when the stare comes with long, slow blinks, they could be trying to get you to see them.
These intense, adorable stares are what we call “eye kisses.” It’s about the greatest compliment and show of affection you can receive from any feline!
They’re practically saying, “I adore you, and I feel the safest with you around.” How can you not give them as much love as they want after knowing that?
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6. Sitting On Your Lap
If you’re looking for signs your cat needs more love, there’s no sign clearer than the feline attempting to sit on your lap.
In some cases, they could be asking for food or water. But it’s usually them asking for some intimate time with their human.
Either way, it’s a win-win. You get to cuddle your furry companion and they get the petting or rubbing they desire.
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7. Following You Around
Cats are a mixed bag of fur. While some felines are bold enough to jump on your lap, others can only give you hints that they crave attention.
If your furry companion starts following you around the house, you can usually take that as a sign to cuddle.
Still, don’t overdo it. Sure, they want attention, but they also dislike being smothered with kisses or hugs, and will often result in aggression.
Do note that sudden changes in a feline’s behavior could indicate health concerns.
So, if a cat that normally steers clear of you starts following you non-stop or exhibits other alarming signs, don’t hesitate to visit the nearest veterinarian.
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8. Scratching Your Furniture
Clawing is an instinctive behavior for cats. They do it to mark their territory through the scent glands in their paws, maintain their nails, and stretch their muscles.
However, if the scratching becomes excessive or destructive, it could mean that the feline is stressed out or anxious.
Sometimes, they may claw your furniture or other inappropriate areas to earn the reaction they want from you. For these furry creatures, negative attention is better than no attention at all.
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9. Meowing Non-Stop
Cats meow to communicate their intentions. The tone or pitch of these vocalizations may change depending on what they’re trying to tell you.
When you’re busy doing some chores, the feline could start with a low, persistent meowing to catch your ears. When that doesn’t work, some cats turn to screeching, attempting to startle you and get to their side quickly.
It’s not always attention-seeking, though. When a cat doesn’t stop howling regardless of what you do, it could be a sign of a serious health concern.
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10. Excessive Grooming
Excessive grooming in cats can mean several things. This habit can stem from underlying medical conditions, but it can also simply mean your feline companion is bored out of its mind.
They may lick uncontrollably to ease feelings of stress or pent-up energy—either way, it’s a good time to give the furry creature some of your love.
Spend some time brushing the feline’s coat while scratching its ears. Or better yet, give it something they can focus their attention on, such as toys or food puzzles!
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11. Sleeping in Unusual Places
If your cat suddenly chooses strange or isolated spots to sleep—like laundry baskets, hard floors, or even the sink—it might not just be curiosity. This could be a subtle sign they’re feeling overlooked or emotionally disconnected and are seeking comfort in their own way.
12. Ignoring You (On Purpose)
Cats are masters of passive-aggression. If your usually affectionate kitty starts deliberately turning their back to you, avoiding your gaze, or leaving the room when you enter, it may be their way of showing they’re upset and feeling a little unloved.
13. Bringing You “Gifts” More Often
While it’s usually cute (or horrifying, depending on the gift), a sudden uptick in dead toy mice or socks placed on your bed may be a call for attention. Your cat could be saying, “Notice me! I’ve done something impressive, now give me praise!
14. Lying on Your Belongings
Yes, laptops and books are one thing, but when your cat starts choosing your clothes, shoes, or pillow over their usual nap spots, it’s a big hint they want to feel closer to you—even when you’re not there.
15. Overreacting to Your Absence
If your cat starts greeting you dramatically when you return—meowing nonstop, weaving between your legs, or even acting slightly clingy—it’s a telltale sign they’ve missed you and need a little reassurance that you’re still their person.
Final Thoughts
Although often independent, felines desire your affection just as any other pet.
As a parent, your responsibility doesn’t stop at providing food, clean litter, and water. You must also give them some attention and allow the furry creature to enjoy your time together.
Nine lives or not, cats don’t live forever, you know!
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In short, if you’re a first-time fur mom or dad, it’s crucial to remain on their good side, lest you incur the feline’s wrath!
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Amanda created and owns The Discerning Cat. A lifelong cat lover she is the proud parent of two Siberian cats, Alexei and Vladimir. She is passionate about understanding cats and different cat breeds.